"Amir: Maryam, want me to massage your head since you have a migraine?
Me: No, thank you, love. I don't want your hands to get tired.
Amir: It matters more that your head gets better, than for my hands to hurt.
Me: Aww, thank you. That's very kind of you.
Amir: Why are you thanking me? Its from the heart."
Now if only more people were this considerate, compassionate and merciful. Seems most have forgotten such qualities or think its not important.